Monday, December 17, 2007
Zee's Graduation - Before the stage performance
The curtains opened to a melange of global citizens waving frantically and standing on tippy toes armed with video cameras, smiles, and flashes from cameras. One would of thought we were the scientists who had found a way to combat Global warming...but alas, it was just a few 2 year olds trying to sing mashed potato in front of proud parents acknowledging the kids are ready to move to the next level. Zee just sat down and put his face down on his knees as if on a roller coaster that wouldn't end as the rest of the children stood in front of the crowd like deer in headlights. Fortunately the ride ended quickly and I whisked him Master Zee off the stage and outside so he could play....and I could cool off.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Monday, October 22, 2007
Grandma's visit
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Friday, August 24, 2007
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
For Teo's ADORING FANS
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Monday, June 11, 2007
To join or not join
So I received an email informing me that a cousin of mine is considering joining the US Marines today. My question is why? Why is he considering joining the military? Is it so the military will fund his college? Is it in hopes of attaining skills for a job after leaving the service? Is it a sense of patriotism? Is it a rite of passage? My question for you (reader) is this? If it were someone that you cared about what questions would you ask of him/her and what sage advice would you provide a young and impressionable young man or woman (in this case man)?
I am curious to hear what others reading this blog have to say? I encourage you to share your comments on this blog. Click comments and share your thoughts. I hope my cousin will read your insightful comments.
Livin' It
Tommorrow we move to another apartment which is close by. My parents and niece will arrive here on Wednesday so tomorrow promises to be a "big"day. Today we slept in and had pancakes. We dilly dallied and then walked around the neighborhood and enjoyed a nice lunch. Afterward Zee and Mommy napped and then Zee and I went to visit the local library. A nice three story structure with a coffee shop built in. It seemed to have a decent selection of works and also included a nice section for Zee to run around and be wild. A nice little Asian girl was running and tripped and fell on her books. The poor little things mouth was bleeding until grandma came and mumbled something in Mandarin....It must of been good because the girl stopped crying and put on a serious face. I tried to get a library card to check out some videos but no dice. I have to have lived in the country for at least three months......too bad la. It didn't surprise me thought. After the library we headed for the beach and had dinner at a local Turkish resto. The hummus and pita were yummy but we were hoping for some falafel. We settled for a nice chicken kabab and rice but Master Zee was too excited by the rides and ambience to eat so went and played on beach. We found an abandoned shovel that had washed ashore and Zee was in his element. I had a sandbox....Zee had the beach. After it got dark we made our next stop at good ole' Kenny Rogers restaurant. Yepper! You gotta know when do hold 'em, know when to fold 'em...Kenny sure did satisfy with all that down home cookin' right there in Singapore. It was kinda surreal but Zee loved the mac and cheese and tasty corn bread and with a picture of Kenny and Dolly Parton, well, shucks, we felt like we were back stateside. I nearly had to fight back the tears. After dinner we got some vitamin F at Mickey Ds. Zee wanted his own ic cream cone so we bought him one. He couldn't finish it but he sure liked the idea of just holding on to it and making a mess. We had to help him out by finishing it. We finally got back home at around 9:30 PM and Zee was still going strong. I finally got him down at a little after 10:00 PM. Will try to post something tomorrow.
Sweet livin'
We just got back from a 10 mintue walk in our neighborhood where there are Tibetan, Eurasian, Hokkien, Mexican, Indian, and Chinese restos. We walked into a Deli and the people gave us free samples of drinks and fed Zee samples of healthy food. We decided to eat at a local Chinese stand and the woman gave Zee hugs, kisses, and a free bag of goodies. Zee kept opening up his arms for a hug and the woman would come around and hold him. It was nice. Mommy and Zee are down for a nap as I type this so I will cut it short.
Singapore Beach
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Cross Country
Monday, May 14, 2007
Momma's Day
Happy Mom’s Day
My alarm woke me up late. I was supposed to be at the zoo by 0500 but instead I was looking at my cell phone ringing and it was already 0500. Ughh. I was beat. I quickly packed my bag and hopped on old blue and raced to the zoo in the morning darkness. Once I arrived, the zoo was alive with my friends rushing hither and thither putting banners up, setting up the shoots for the runners to come through, and placing marshals at critical positions for the 5KM Race and Fun Run Race. It was the last of 5 races to put on and this one was ours. Our running club called “The Jakarta Free Spirits” was putting this one on. Things went well. My official title was Potty Boy and I had ordered the “Western” style port-a-johns the day before so I was pleased. There were over 500 people that showed up for the race and the times were fast for such an undulating course passing tigers, crocodiles, elephants, and monkeys. Starbucks was present as well as New Balance selling their shoes. Only a few people passed out at the finish which was a good thing.
As I came running in the final stretch huffing and puffing I could hear Vanessa screaming my name as she pointed out “Daddy” to Zee man. It felt good to finish as I had yet to have my cup of Java to get my motor started. After the race there was a 100m dash for the wee little ones and Master Zee completed his first dash in record time…..for a 21 month old. Good stuff. (Hopefully my friend who snapped some pictures will send them to me so I can post them).
After the race Mom and I took Zee for a train ride at the zoo and then we went to the gorilla and monkey exhibits. It was nice until another little boy got too close to the monkeys and one of the monkeys grabbed his little curls and tries to pull him by the hair through the fence. I am sure the boy will be as traumatized and scarred for life as I was. As I started to run to pull him away he managed to rip himself away. No real physical harm done but I doubt he will ever read any monkey stories the same way ever again. His Mom checked him for scratches and none were found…thankfully.
After the tour of the monkeys I was told my team had won second place overall and I had missed the medal awards. We headed home to get ready for Mother’s Day brunch. We met some friends at the Intercontinental for a wonderful brunch from 12:00 to 3:00 complete with free flow champagne, wine and amazing food. It was so nice to just relax and swap yarns with friends and celebrate Mother’s day.
After brunch we returned home and we were called by other friends who wanted to meet up for dinner. Zee and their boy hang out so we decided to meet them at 6:00 PM at a local pizza shop. Mayhem ensued as five young children ran around the restaurant as if they were wild mustangs and we were the cowboys in charge of herding them to the next event. Needless to say I was glad that I was still full from brunch. Vanessa had to leave after about 15 minutes to go to work on Mothers Day in order to save the world. I thought a nice gift would be a Wonder Woman outfit but decided against it….it wouldn’t fit her pregnant body. I stayed on and had Zee racing the other kids up stairs and teaching him how to honk a car horn to the dismay of the other parents. Zee and I quickly escaped as the other kids honked the horn as we hopped a taxi for home. I realized I had left the baby bag at the pizza shop….oooops.
I returned home and bathed Zee man and as we were eating he suddenly wanted his Momma and would not relent. We had to go for a walk to look at the Geckos and find some stray cats in the “hood” to distract him. It worked. Momma returned home at 7:45 PM, just in time for a bedtime story, and then another day came to an end.
We are getting down to the wire. Momma V and Master Zee will travel to
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Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Feeling less like Home
I sent the letter below to the SFO airport after our less than pleasant welcoming home. I hope this does not happen to anyone else.
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Sir(s)/Madame(s):
On December 24th, 2006 my pregnant wife of 4 months, my 16 month old son, and I cheerfully arrived to the
We are
After I placed all the carry on baggage onto the conveyor belt we moved into the security metal detector line while entering the domestic terminal. I decided to go first. My wife, who was pushing our sleeping son in the stroller, was next in line. I walked through the metal detector first without incident. “Please remove the baby from the stroller and place the stroller on the conveyor belt!” bellowed the male security person to my wife. My wife, exhausted, called me to help her break down the heavy stroller while she lifted our son from the stroller. As I tried to return through the metal detector to assist my pregnant wife and son I was stopped by the male security guard. “You cannot go back through the metal detector.” “Sir,” I said, “you can see my wife needs help and you have already seen me go through the detector. I am just going to help her with the stroller and I will walk back through.” “I cannot allow you to go back through the detector,” he said. “I don’t understand,” I said, “I already went through and I will come back again. I need to help my wife.” “Sir,” he said, “I said you can’t go back through.” “Well, if you won’t let me through could you please assist my pregnant wife?” I questioned. “I cannot leave my position, you should have thought of that before you went through and left your pregnant wife behind.” My heart sank and my blood boiled as I stared at my pregnant wife as she struggled to break down the stroller, my bleary eyed son resting on her shoulder. It was painful to watch as she struggled to lift the stroller up to the x-ray machine, not once, but twice. On the second try in a half hearted attempt one of the security guards made an effort to help her. Was this a bad dream? Where was I? Was I a criminal? Had I done something wrong?
I understand the need for security but I also understand the need for compassion. Suddenly, I felt like I no longer knew this country or its people. I felt like I had entered a country more foreign than the foreign country in which I reside. I felt embarrassed, ashamed, and angry. I had come home, but this did not feel like home. I suddenly thought of the thousands of foreigners who arrive here daily for the first time and are subjected to this type of treatment. What would they think of the
My hope and point in writing this letter is to ask that in your efforts to incorporate rigorous and sound security policies that you do not sacrifice the values of respect, dignity, and compassion toward all men, women, and children. After all, it is said that first impressions are the most important impressions made and airports are for many the first impression people will shape about the country, the state, and city.
Respectfully,
Paul Zane Dickey
I may be contacted at zanedickey@yahoo.com
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On Tuesday January 16, 2007 4:17 PM
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